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Weekly E-Devotional for 2/10/2009
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“Comfort without Words”
This week at Trinity we have two memorial services scheduled. On Friday
at 2:00 we will celebrate and give thanks to God for the life of
Nan Hough. Then, on Saturday the 14th, there
will be a memorial service for the family and friends of
Ray Cranford. Life in the church can be very busy and we find
ourselves going in all sorts of directions. But occasions like these
remind us of exactly why the church is here – we exist to lift up Jesus Christ
and to bring comfort to those who mourn. Now I know there are lots of
other things the church does. But are any as important as bringing people
to Christ and holding the hands of those for whom death has come too quickly to
a loved one?
Sometimes finding the right words to say can be very difficult. When a
person is going through a painful time we often feel helpless. So perhaps
the question is, “How do we help when there’s nothing we can do? Let me
suggest to you that very often the best comfort has nothing to do with what you
say – but with your presence alone. Sometimes just sitting with someone
and holding their hand while they weep can be the greatest gift you can give.
At other times offering a hug or a listening ear can be a powerful ministry.
I guess my point is that often the best comfort has nothing to do with words.
I am reminded of the answer the little 6 year old boy gave when his mother
asked him where he had been. He said, “Momma, my friend’s cat died and I
went to help him.” She asked, “And what did you do to help your friend?”
With all the innocence of a little child he said, “I saw he was crying and I
just sat down beside him and helped him cry.” That does help. Please
don’t ever underestimate the power of your presence – it alone can bring comfort
without words.
I’m praying and pulling for you.
Bobby
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